It is true that some things are kind of mysterious. Many things cannot be explained in plain language. Things like dreams, the soul, the universe, and many other things.
Still, it does not hurt to have a little idea of the possible significance of our dreams. Have you ever wondered what it means when you dream about your crush?
What could the universe possibly be trying to tell you? What exactly is the meaning of dreams? Do you know what it means when you dream about your crush?
Are falling more and more for him or her? Is it a positive or negative sign? Is there something happening in your head or it is a reference to real-life events?
There are so many questions that centre on dreams. It gets even more serious when it has some personal reflections and connections to us.
We get even more curious and perplexed when it concerns our crush or ex.
So, this article will attempt to look at what it means when you dream about your crush. Also, the different scenarios and kinds of dreams will be discussed.
However, these will not constitute facts but most likely possibilities.
What is a Dream
Wikipedia informs us that a dream is a succession of images, ideas, emotions, and sensations that usually occur involuntarily in the mind during certain stages of sleep.
It is also a series of thoughts, images, and sensations occurring in a person’s mind during sleep.
It is very important to note that the dreams discussed here are no plans or ambitions for the future. However, we are dealing with the natural phenomenon whereby an organism loses consciousness and dozes off.
So, we are talking about one seeing images of the person he or she is attracted to while in this state of unconsciousness.
Dreaming about your Crush Doing Different Things
In our dreams about our crush, we may find ourselves in different situations. These different situations and activities represent different messages.
As such, we are going to make an attempt to analyze all the different scenarios and propose possible meanings.
1. Dreaming about kissing your crush
Does your dream involve locking lips with your crush? Or is it a quick peck on the mouth or is it a more passionate, deep (French) kiss?
Whatever, the kiss itself may symbolize a desire to .
So, if you are dreaming of kissing a lady you have been seeing in the hallways or making out with a guy you see on the train, it can mean that you desperately want to have an intimate connection with that person.
In truth, it is not uncommon for people who have kissing dreams about a crush to secretly hold a deep connection to the individual for reasons beyond their understanding.
Depending on the process of the kiss, you can gain more insight. Let us consider these:
a. Kiss Coming from your Crush
When your crush kisses you, it possibly means you are picking up on a vibe that suggests an interest or attraction.
Though seemingly random, you didn’t just dream about that person suddenly holding you and passionately planting a kiss on your lips.
b. Kiss Initiated by you
In analyzing the kiss that happened in your dream, supposing you were the one to initiate the lip lock, you need to ask yourself if the person kissed you back.
So, if you find it difficult to remember, it may imply something. This could mean that you want to have a romantic interlude with your crush but are unsure of their reaction.
Conversely, when your crush kissed you back with zeal, the possible meaning is that you feel the reward might be worth the risk of possible rejection.
2. Dreams about Having Sex with your Crush
Was your dream intimate in nature, meaning the two of you held a special moment of carnal desire? If so, it is important to reflect on the imagery and extract specific activities.
Here is why:
Some dreams of this nature are about pleasing someone. Other times, they are about self-pleasure.
For example, if your dream involved physical touch that you initiated and they were receptive, it could mean just what it seems like – a desire to make the person happy.
On the other hand, if the person did something to you during the dream to bring you pleasure (use your imagination), it likely means there is deep unhappiness – a void inside – that you want this person to fill.
And so in this instance, you may want to focus on what’s missing from your life, particularly on the intimacy front.
3. Dreaming of a combination of kisses and Sex
If you are a person who has had (or having) the rare experience of dreaming about a crush that involves kissing and physical intercourse, it is most likely a deeply rooted desire to be in a relationship with someone.
What’s missing from your life? Are you receiving enough physical touch? Is there passion in your life?
FYI: This doesn’t mean the person you are dreaming about is “the one”. It does, however, mean you desire this from somebody.
Crushes often are the manifestation of our hearts’ projection. A “speaker of truth” if you will that comes to us from a place from beyond.
4. Dreams that just have your Crush’s Face
Does your dream seem somewhat abstract when it comes to your crush? For example, do you see her or him just standing in the distance, looking at you? Do you communicate the verbal means or is it all eye contact?
Dreams that focus on the face of a person we are crushing on hold the symbolic meaning of love. By this I mean there is a desire to be in love with another person in a romantic way.
On the surface, it may seem the object of that love is the person you are dreaming about.
But here is the deal –
That face you see is actually symbolic of you. It is a projection of all that you want in a person and a relationship.
If you meditate deeply about the imagery of your dream, you will likely notice that the individual’s face is always happy in nature.
Faces in dreams are commonly a paradoxical mirror of the self, manifested through the subconscious.
5. When your Crush Dies in the Dream
This is a nightmare to be certain. Most times the dream involves you attending your crush’s funeral, staying beside them on their deathbed, or receiving news from another friend that the crush has died.
This type of dream may be disconcerting or traumatic. Don’t worry about it happening in real life. The most accepted interpretation? Your feelings for your crush symbolically “die” after so long.
You no longer hold strong affections towards the person as you did during the beginning.
On the other hand, it could also mean you miss seeing your crush, and you haven’t seen or heard from them for a long time.
6. When Your Crush Begins Dating Someone Else
Another disturbing crush dream! You see them in the company of another person. The dream usually ends with that realization, and it hurts you in your real and dream life.
Such a dream symbolizes your hidden fears and insecurities towards a relationship.
Likely, it sums up the reason why you haven’t been enthusiastic about making a move or even considering a relationship with your crush. Your fear of not being good enough or getting rejected
7. When Your Crush has Mutual Feelings
This is probably the next best type of crush dream after the sex with crush type of dream. In this type, you spend alone time with your crush. Then, they reveal they have liked you for a long time as well.
Interestingly, the real-life implication may delight you as well. This type of dream scenario is formed when the dreamer has a significant amount of self-confidence and hope with the possible outcome of pursuing your crush.
If you have this kind of dream, start making a move on your crush.
8. When you dream about your crush hugging you
Your crush hugging you in the dream is a good sign you could make out things together soon.
To see your crush hugging you in the dream indicates your desire for greater achievement that something you used to wish for is becoming yours.
Hugging alone regardless of who’s hugging you in the dream, represents a sign of comforting a person or appreciation for something successful. This implies that it holds possibly negative and positive dream outcomes.
9. When you Dream of Arguing with your Crush
If you were arguing with your crush in your dream, it can suggest that you will never be with the person in your waking life. It doesn’t mean that you two aren’t compatible with each other.
Sometimes, Arguing represents the tension between the two of you in waking life. Or it symbolizes your .
Perhaps your crush doesn’t notice you and it frustrates you. Or he/she is with someone else. You’re jealous of their relationship.
If you received a love letter, text, or communication from your crush in your dream, it means that you will meet someone new in your waking life. Alternatively, it reflects a lack of self-esteem.
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10. When you Dream about your Crush 3 Nights in a Row?
It is possible to dream about someone (your crush) two nights in a row, or even three nights in a row and sometimes you could dream about your crush over and over again.
Thus, when you dream about your crush 3 nights in a row, it indicates that you’re beginning to think much about him/her in the daytime.
Such type of dream can be controlled or put to a stop when you begin to control your thoughts about your crush.
However, most dreams about your crush over and over again could be filled with what the subconscious mind decided to use which are always in correlation to your wake time activities
11. What does it Mean when you Dream about your Crush Holding your Hand?
When you dream about your crush holding your hand, it is not just a common dream. This type of dream means a lot depending on the scenarios.
For instance, holding hands with someone (your crush) in the dream indicates love, connection, and affection you feel for the person, deep emotions, affections and symbolizes friendship.
Also, the same dreams of holding hands can mean a different thing when you’re holding hands with the person you’re in love with as it connotes a bad sign.
This type of dream is often accompanied by some difficulties you could soon experience.
12. What does it Mean to Dream of your Crush Cheating?
To dream of your crush with another girl, boy (Man or woman) can represent your feelings towards others. It can suggest that you are worried about moving forward with a specific relationship.
Each night when you do go to sleep certain emotions come into your subconscious mind.
This is because we are quiet when we sleep and it allows our emotions to come to the forefront! If there is cheating or rejection featured in your dream this is connected to how feeling in daily life.
My advice is to try to think about how people are rejecting or cheating you.
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13. Dream about Getting Back with your Crush
Dreaming of getting back with your crush can have a number of meanings. It can indicate you are missing this person and you wish to rekindle the relationship, alternatively, this dream can symbolize the union of opposites.
If you dream that you are getting back with a childhood crush this is associated with unexpected good news.
Equally, as a practising medium, I also believe that the spirit guides connect people through their dreams, if you are getting back with an old crush it can be your highest spirit that is connecting you with this person again!
What does it mean When you Dreams about your Crush of Different Kinds
We all have fantasies and wishes. Whether fortunately or otherwise, nature has found a way of making us live out these fantasies in form of dreams.
At times, you may discover that you have different classes of crushes. So, what does it mean when you dream about your crush of different kinds? Let us consider some of them.
1. Dreaming about your Current Crush
If you are dreaming of a current lover then this is normally a “desire” related dream.
Traditional dream folklore states that if you dream about a current love that promises great things in the relationship as long as you work hard, it can also foretell a happy and stress-free lifestyle.
If your dream is negative in any way then this can suggest that you may be worrying about something in the future. If you are a woman it may also indicate motherhood.
2. Dream about Being Rejected by a Crush
This dream may have a psychological cause, it can indicate that you are feeling “rejected” in waking life. This dream also brings with it “good luck in love” according to old folklore.
To dream of being rejected by your crush over and over can indicate there are better things in life. Such a dream can also associate with unconscious forces that will bring about positive inner transformation.
3. Dream about a Celebrity Crush Mean
Dreaming of acelebrity crush is not necessarily about the celebrity themselves. The celebrity can be a metaphor for somebody close to you in your current life.
Nobody knows for certain the function of our dreams, however, “celebrities” featured in dream
s are often reflections of our own personal goals. Celebrities usually signify our .
This dream may be drawing attention to an aspect of your own nature that you need to define or the dream is connected to something you are trying to express.
The advice of the dream is that you need to be more spontaneous and less rational in life. Everyone has hidden energy within and “transformation” can happen if we really think about what we want or desire in life.
4. Dream about a Crush on a Stranger Mean
To dream of a crush on a stranger is often connected to a new awareness unfolding. However, it can also mean that you are on the verge of a new relationship.
Additionally, if you have a specific and very vivid, lucid dream about a crush on a stranger this can suggest that you may need to express your feelings of social vulnerability.
It may be that you are hiding away from the world and that it is time for you to take on more relationships with others. Getting out there and having fun is the advice of this dream.
5. Dream of a Crush on Someone of Same Gender
To dream of a crush on somebody of the same gender is a symbolism that there is a “need for a fresh change.” It does not matter what gender the crush is in the dream world.
For example, if a woman dreams she has a crush on another woman this can often indicate that she will have positive times with female friends.
The dream itself is not literal in nature (from a spiritual perspective.) Turning to the psychological meaning of this dream can represent the fact you are ready to put into action something important.
It can also be a reflection of the quality of relationships that surround you. It may be showing you the development of a new relationship or a period of spiritual development! Lucky you!
6. What does it Mean to Dream of a Crush on a Friend?
If you dream that a friend is your crush, this dream can indicate that you have a deep desire for happiness in life.
In very rare cases it can suggest hidden feelings of a friend, do you like this friend? If the crush is feeling the same way then this is a positive dream.
7. What Does It Mean to Dream of a Crush on a Teacher?
A few people have contacted me with concerns after having a dream about having a crush on their teacher. This is namely teenagers.
My advice to anybody who has a dream about a teacher (past or present) is that the teacher can be a symbolism of our growth and development in life.
However, it is very unusual for this dream to be literal. The teacher is a representation of learning and developing in life.
So, this could be through a spiritual enlightenment or alternatively the need to understand ourselves better. Thus, to dream of having a crush on the teacher normally brings luck in old folklore.
8. What does it Mean if you Dream About an Old Crush all the Time?
Dreaming about your old crush obsessively (over and over again) can suggest that you have a true/secret desire for this particular person.
This is a positive dream and in my view, indicates that you have hidden emotions and desires for this particular person.
The other aspect of this dream from a psychological perspective is that you don’t get carried away with your emotions.
Accordingly, if you dream about your crush for months on end, perhaps there’s an unsolved issue in waking life that you’re not dealing with.
Maybe it’s time you face problems in a relationship and instead of being with him/her, you should confess your emotions and how you feel for the person.
The “crush” could represent someone else in real life. It could be a boyfriend or someone important. In most cases, the people in the dream represent people that you have met in the past.
9. What Does It Mean When You Keep Dreaming Of Someone Else’s Crush?
If you’re dreaming of your partner’s crush, perhaps your biggest desire in waking life is to be with them.
Also, if you’re constantly dreaming of your partner’s crush, it’s possible that you’re constantly thinking about your relationship.
According to some older dream texts, you might feel jealous or frustrated because of your partner’s crush in waking life and it reflects in your dream state too.
Perhaps you’re spending too much time thinking about your future with your crush, your life together, their ex-partners and this is on your mind.
Spiritual Message of Dreaming about your Crushes
Some people wonder when they dream about a crush if there is a spiritual meaning. In other words, what is the spiritual message being transmitted?
The answer to that question largely hinges on your personal belief system and openness to new thinking. From the, it is possible that your dream is a sign from the universe to make a move.
This doesn’t mean that you should try to hit on your crush right away. Instead, focus on what’s is missing in your life.
Others believe that crush dreams contain the spiritual message of unmet needs. In other words, the person you are dreaming about symbolizes something missing from your life that needs attention.
Karmic energy may have been used by the universe to draw your awareness around this need.
Well, there it is. About the bulk of what you should know. If you are still bordered on what it means when you dream about your crush, then you might need further personal study and research.
Simply, you can forget about the whole dream if it is too much stress for you. Anyway, for those of us who have a strong interest in our dreams, hopefully, this article has been helpful.
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